What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence, without a basic form and established outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, delighted state of being. The impact is typically a wonderful physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are really out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. You never know how it will end up. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What is excellent for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, like constantly has a suitable reaction. Therefore the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Enough is that the giver is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver always should be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear boundaries ahead of time
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (read the short article on securing limits. Think in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make sure there is an appropriate intake, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries ahead of time: about mental boundaries, and also make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also totally ok (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head. In addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and awareness. In a flash you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a process in time. Tantra understands various methods to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function besides self-realization: restoring the natural (thrilled) state of being.
Generally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, often delicious. We, therefore, invite you to completely enjoy receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are many types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in common. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (aimed at pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Not Therapy
Well since you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- prior to you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need complimentary, don't press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback check it out (pleasure sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
Demand complimentary.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are mainly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, obviously. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. satisfaction sounds) and provide combination moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate don't hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you learn what it is like to enjoy yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you may become not only cheerful but even euphoric. An overjoyed state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a terrific physical, psychological wellness (of both).